The Dichotomy of Leadership: Balancing the Challenges of Extreme Ownership to Lead and Win

Just as discipline and freedom are opposing forces that must be balanced, leadership requires finding the equilibrium in the dichotomy of many seemingly contradictory qualities between one extreme and another.

  • A leader must lead but also be ready to follow.
  • A leader must be aggressive but not overbearing.
  • A leader must be calm but not robotic.
  • A leader must be confident but never cocky.
  • A leader must be brave but not foolhardy.
  • A leader must be humble but not passive; quiet but not silent.
  • A leader must be attentive to details but not obsessed with them.
  • A leader must be close with subordinates but not too close.

The Laws of Human Nature

Robert Greene is one of the world’s most dedicated writers on how to get along with others and yourself. I strongly suggest becoming a student of human nature. It will change your entire reality. The more you can learn about how the human mind works, the more you can be aware of how your actions influence others.

12 Rules For Life: An Antidote to Chaos

12 Rules for Life is an interesting book. Equal parts philosophy, psychology, and self-help book, it covers a broad range of topics, with Peterson drawing from life experiences, religion, and history to build a strong case for his points and provide what seems on its surface to be very good advice for people.

I’ll give you Rule #1: Stand up straight with your shoulders back (make your body/mind honest, straight and strong). Purchase the book to understand all of them.

Rich Dad’s CashFlow Quadrant: Guide to Financial Freedom

Rich Dad’s CASHFLOW Quadrant is a guide to financial freedom. It’s the second book in the Rich Dad Series and reveals how some people work less, earn more, pay less in taxes. The author explains the 4 quadrants you can operate in and how to maximize each. The four quadrants are: S (Self-Employed), E (Employee), B (Business Owner), and I (Investor).

The Book on Investing In Real Estate with No (and Low) Money Down: Real Life Strategies for Investing in Real Estate Using Other People’s Money

At the beginning of 2018, I sat and reflected on the previous year like I usually do. During this time I always set new goals and targets for the new year. One of my 2018 goals is to purchase a multi-family property in Colorado and rent the units out to tenants. Now I’ve been educating myself on how the real estate industry works and what to look out for. Here is one of the books I’ve been reading and enjoying.

High Performance Habits: How Extraordinary People Become That Way

High Performance as defined in this book is: succeeding beyond standard norms, consistently over the long term. This book is pure gold and recommended for anyone trying to reach peak performance in business, career, and life. Brendon is widely considered the world’s leading high performance coach (according to both Success Magazine and Oprah.com). The habits in this book are precise, actionable, repeatable, scalable, and sustainable.

Brendon breaks high performance down into 6 habits and refers to them as the HP6:

  1. Clarity – Who you are, what you do, how you interact, where you’re going.
  2. Energy – maintain focus, effort, & well being, stay on your A game.
  3. Necessity – Success is your duty, responsibility, and moral obligation.
  4. Productivity – minimize any and all distractions.
  5. Influence – Getting people to believe in and support your ambitions.
  6. Courage – Express your ideas, take bold action, face uncertainty.

In addition to reading the book, I also recommend watching/listening to this interview with Brendon & Lewis Howes on The School of Greatness Podcast.

The Five Minute Foreman: Mastering the People Side of Construction

It doesn’t matter if you’re like me and have a career in the construction industry, this book applies to all businesses and leadership positions. If you are in the construction industry, you will find this book especially impactful as its opened my eyes to how valuable construction leaders are. Highly recommend for all readers pursuing leadership roles.

As Construction Leaders, “We don’t build buildings. We build the people who build the buildings.”

Expect Greatness: Living A Life Of Excellence

I had the opportunity to interview the author of this book, John Hawkins on NITCH Radio. This book is written to serve as guide that you can always come back to and reference. All of the chapters are stand alone chapters that cover a principle on greatness and living a life of excellence. “Greatness is not something that happens by accident. Rather, it’s accomplished through the successful completion of a series of goals, steps, and objectives over time.” This is recommended reading.